This past summer Hadley and I were book buddies, an easy, no fuss activity that allows you and your child to discuss (via writing, of course) a book together. Here’s what you need:
– A book that you agree to read together (Hadley and I agreed to alternate the book choices. So I’ll see her Captain Underpants and raise her some Kate DiCamillo).
– A journal (I’m pretty sure the one we are using was purchased in the dollar section of Target a couple of years ago)
– Pens or pencils.
I taped some reading prompts from our school’s newsletter inside the journal so we had some direction to our notes back and forth, but I don’t think it’s necessary. The point is to model good writing, and connect with your kiddo over a story.
For my first letter, I asked Hadley if she would like to be book buddies and she wrote back and said, “YES! I think being book buddies would be a GREAT idea! Do you have any other ideas?”
Oh yes, Miss Hadley. I am full of good ideas.
The only rule Hadley and I made for ourselves was to write about the pages we read. I would try, now and then, to encourage Hadley to write a little more, but I paid attention not to sound “too like a teacher” because I wanted to keep the project fun.
For the most part, Hadley and I continued our book buddy project throughout the summer, but stopped once school started. Last week though, we went to the library to look for more Nancy Drew books (Hadley’s latest series endeavor). She is on the eleventh book and the library didn’t have that one, so she wandered around a bit looking for something else (she likes to read them in order). When she found Captain Underpants, I said, “C’mon, Hadley. Not that one.” But you know that’s just going to make her want to read it more, so my second attempt was this: “You can get that one if you get one I pick out.” So she picked out the book about a guy with underpants on and Beverly Cleary’s Ramona Forever.
On the way home, Hadley started reading parts of Captain Underpants out loud and much to my surprise (and I’ll admit, delight) I was laughing so hard I had to stop walking and catch my breath. Hadley was thrilled and kept reading while Harper and I giggled away.
Right before bed that evening, Hadley handed me the Captain Underpants books and said, “I’m done with these but you laughed so hard while I was reading that I thought you’d like to read them. Maybe we can do book buddies again.”
So we will.
(Hadley’s trying her hand at cursive.)
I’m trying it with Harper, too.
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Abbigail Kriebs says
Love this idea! Now I need to go find a kid to be book buddies with… 🙂
calliefeyen says
Haha! I know two who might like to write letters to you…:)
Jesse says
You are such a cool mom! Hadley kept telling me that you laughed really hard at the part where a character in Captain Underpants changes a sign in the cafeteria to tell people to pee on their socks to stay warm.
Do you want to go out sometime?
calliefeyen says
That was a fantastic part and I have no shame in admitting how funny it was.
Give me your number.
Jeannine says
Your girls are so lucky to have you as their mom!
calliefeyen says
Thank you, Jeannine!
alison says
i’m loving the attempts at cursive font. naomi wants to learn it so badly but i don’t think it’s taught in our schools anymore. now if only i can remember the correct way to do it… totally stealing this idea though! thanks…
calliefeyen says
I have a cursive book. I’ll get the title for you and send you a copy. It KILLS me that they don’t teach cursive anymore.
Alisa says
Stopping over from Coffee + Crumbs and I love love love this idea! My mom and I read books together but not like this. She used it as a way to know what I was reading as HP was popular. But I’m definitely going to do this with my daughter once she is reading and writing. Kids need these cues to think more about their stories…I was a binge reader and wish I’d had this kind of teaching!
calliefeyen says
Hi Alisa!
Thanks so much for stopping by and for the comment! I find it is a great way to talk to my girls through story, too. Plus, there is no prep work involved at all. 🙂